Sunday, January 3, 2016

Hello 2016



For the past few years I have this "on and off relationship" with gay social networking sites like Grindr, Planet Romeo, and just recently Tinder. This special relationship I have with these apps have made me realize that it has turned me into some monstrous dogbitch. 

I would spend my study breaks and lazy nights looking for my next fuck buddy to have decent conversations with.  Right now however to me its has become more like an app to look for people to hook up with.  Gone are the days where you get good conversations, now it's a place to find a decent fuck. All these people in it must have influenced me to become this way. I was never like this. I used to be very submissive and yet very passive about these things.

So this year in 2016 I will now find love in a more classy way (Seduce and Abuse joke) and avoid these apps for they are full of horn dogs and assholes. I will not become superficial and judge people based on how they look. What really matters is personality (But ugh I hate to admit but maybe 30% is looks as well) and how a person carries himself.

Hopefully this year would be great for me. Since I finally decided that after the boards I will join the rat race and find myself a decent 9-5 job in my quest to finding myself.. I don't even know if I still want to become a medical practitioner anymore. I lost my burning desire to make everything better for people after being exposed to really irate and unappreciative patients. Hopefully this time I won't go on another month long hiatus of blogging haha.

32 comments:

  1. Irate and unappreciative patients/assholes will always be there. Their kind is everywhere, in all fields and sector. They are even among our superiors.

    Anyway, 2016 will be a better year. You'll come out of this chasm a better and stronger person.

    I've never been through such difficulties, but I always believe that anybody who choose to fight and survive through storm and fire, he is golden.

    And as for those apps, well, it is never the dwelling place of decent human beings, or should I say, that is the only land where we choose to unveil the hungry monster inside us...

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Sadly I don't want to be a hungry monster anymore :) haha We gotta #StaySafe in 2016 :) Thank you for your kind words btw :)

      Delete
  2. "I will not become superficial and judge people based on how they look. What really matters is personality (But ugh I hate to admit but maybe 30% is looks as well) and how a person carries himself."

    Easier said than done. We all want to take the high road and "judge people on their inner self" but it can be hard to get past a lack of sexual chemistry. I think it's particularly worse in the gay community.

    I wish the best to you in 2016!

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. I know it's easier said than done but hopefully I can get through this :)

      Delete
  3. You are not alone. Happy new year.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. :) thanks. "You are not alone" reminds me of the relief goods gave away in Tacloban haha #Elections

      Delete
  4. I have this fear of rejection that's why I never move on to greater heights. I stayed simple yet relevant knowing that my physical appearance is not my greatest strength. I capitalized on what I can do, to increase my confidence level, and worked on my biggest assets: patience, wisdom, maturity, sense of humour and empathy. Where am I going with these? You are a great person whether you have someone or not. Make it right this 2016 and we, your blogger friends, will support you on your decisions.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Grindr killed my confidence after I get turned down by people and sometimes it made me feel desperate after going with guys 7years above or 5 years below me.. Things have to change now though :)

      Delete
  5. Yeah, what matters most is one's personality. But I also hate to admit that the first thing that I notice in a person is his looks, and personality just follows.
    But eventually, I can learn to love the person's personality alone, and his physical appearance will just be an additional plus point.

    Anyways, Happy New Year to you! May you finally find the right man for you this 2016.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thanks for dropping by :) True, hopefully someone would love me for who I am and maybe I would get to find my forever soon haha

      Delete
  6. It's true. I judge people based on the looks. lol. There's always tell-tale signs on their appearance.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Trueeee sometimes I judge people by their profile pic like how if it is of loa quality their cellphone must be ugly or something haha till now it makes me feel like a bitch. Heck I don't even think I have a decent phone haha

      Delete
  7. Go on! Gawin ang nararapat sa iyong sarili :)
    (Kung makapayo, eh di ko rin naman nagagawa hahaha)

    Good luck to you :) and God bless too!

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. let us all love ourselves first before we start loving others :)

      Delete
  8. Haha, I can completely relate to the on/off relationship with the apps. :) SO far, I've been successful in cutting the relationship since I just encounter rubbish most of the time.

    Wishing you well this 2016 in all aspects of your life! ;)

    - Angelo

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hey Angelo! Thanks for stopping by :) :) I hope to hear more from you here and you can email me if ever haha. I have to agree though most people in it are all not worth our time.. Its like finding a needle in a haystack to find good guys

      Delete
  9. Hmmm been reading this blog again and it seems that you have been sharing more than what you should.

    ReplyDelete
  10. Hello? Why aren't you answering my calls? What did I do this time? Stop being such a kid.

    ReplyDelete
  11. Hi Simon, got to know your blog from another blog. Nice blog by the way, will be reading your older posts to find out more. Haha... I'm a blogger too. :)

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Ill be seeing you around here more often then :)

      Delete
  12. I've got a gazillion friends who use dating apps and are on dating sites. Only a handful found love there. Happy for the changes you're making in 2016! Happy new year!

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Thanks :) Hope you have a good year too :)

      Delete
  13. That seduce and abuse line cracked me up. Hahaha! As much as I love social networking sites, I know that finding a potential partner through them is not the best idea.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Who knows :) They say "We can find love in hopeless places" haha

      Delete
  14. Replies
    1. Hey :) Hope to see you around more

      Delete
  15. This comment has been removed by the author.

    ReplyDelete
  16. i've been with PR for almost 10 years now... that's where i discovered a lot of things, mostly about my sexuality in terms of preference.

    but that' s how i also met with my ex...

    anyway...for most, it's a meat market. but somehow, i find decent people from there. we all have our yin and yang, it's just a matter of finding the balance, which side would you show more. ...
    hmm... i'm just saying, PR is not "all" that bad.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. True I know it can't be all that bad but it's pretty rare to find decent guys over there nowadays. :)

      Delete
  17. This comment has been removed by the author.

    ReplyDelete
  18. i never fully rest my fate looking for relationship with gay social sites especially those mentioned.
    facebook before was more trusted that hopefully, if not definitely, you'll be able to catch a decent partner.
    however, facebook nowadays give the negative vibes.
    it's already infected with the same set of people hiding in pseudo accts you only thought you'll meet in gay social sites.

    anyways, please keep the desire (even if it's no longer burning, keep the light) in making people feel better.
    such a noble task.

    happy new year!

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. True :) Facebook right now is really superficial.. Filled with scripted photos to give people a false impression of how they really live life. No offense to anyone though

      Delete